You know how you're just quietly minding your own business, doing your thing. Then something happens - nothing dramatic - and it makes you realize things that has been right in front you all along, but you're just too dense to notice.
Then there are things that should be let go. Friendships that are on respirators, marginally functioning and should really just be done with.
There are loves we hold on to for dear life, without noticing the real loves that accept everything.